Friday, November 5, 2010

CAPRICORN WOMAN AND ARIES MAN

The kind of effect an Aries male and a Capricorn female have on each other
mostly depends on her age when they first meet. If she's still in her teens, or under
thirty, she may see him as a rather crude, pushy, cave-man type, with no future.
And he may see her as a sourpuss, or at the very least, a weird, grannytype
recluse. (Of course, I know of one Goat Girl who's quite a loose swinger,
and about as far out as you can get, but she has all her other planets in Aquarius,
afflicted by Mars. Here, we're dealing with the essentially pure Sun Sign
types.)
If they meet when she's past thirty (the farther past, the better) she may be
a barrel of laughs, full of young ideas about everything from psychology to ecology,
and they'll have much more in common. This can lead the Ram to think
she's as impulsive and carefree as himself, but he's made another one of his rash
Aries judgements. She's still a Capricorn, under the iron influence of Saturn,
and her kooky reverse aging twist will never stretch quite far enough to snap or
distort her basic ideas of security. Nothing will ever change Cappy's reverence
for success and a solid bank account. Now, most Aries men are bristling with
success potential. It shines out from their faces like a beacon light, and shows
itself in their aggressive walk and movements. But Rams don't always display a
natural knack for building solid bank accounts. Until
that fifty. Better yet - sixty. After all, with a potential life span of three to five
hundred years, he has lots of time to mature.)
Capricorn girls gravitate toward those at the top by instinct. After all,
someone has to know who's who, and what's what. Is a sense of responsibility so
bad? No, but to Aries it can be un-nerving. It smacks of Caution and Prudence,
two words this man never even learned to spell because he has a kind of
Freudian hang-up about them. They symbolize the thing he fears most - repression
of his Mars enthusiasm.
That's why a love relationship seldom develops when these two meet in a not know that Capricorn's corresponding symbol in Greek mythology isPonder that. Ifshe thinks. An impossible affair for an impossibleMe. But this girl is often much more warm and lovable than she permitsdo approve of
business situation, where the Ram is the boss and the Goat Girl is his secretary,
for example. Right away, he'll see that she's a perfect jewel of an employee, with
a compelling, if slightly subdued and controlled, sex appeal. She's capable and
efficient, with a bag full of funnies (though she keeps her humor pretty well hidden
during working hours). It flatters his Mars ego that she realizes she's a subordinate,
and subordinates must learn from those above them. Then he discovers
(hopefully before it's too late) that she's unobtrusively learning everything
she needs to replace him as boss. Obviously, a Ram who's threatened like this
will forget about her sex appeal and fire her in a flash. But even then, he'll
probably always remember her as an excellent secretary, although his harrowing
experience forces him to add a qualifying descriptive phrase, like "quietly ambitious."
When they're not competing with each other, however, the Goat and the
Ram can make an interesting couple. I didn't say flashy or fantastic. I said interesting.
By now, you know Capricorn is symbolized by the mountain billy goat. But
you may
Janus, the two-faced god. Before you get the wrong impression, let me explain
the meaning of Janus' two faces which is that one of them is turned toward the
Past, the other toward the Future. With Capricorn, the Future is important
only as it relates to the Past. The Ram will soon discover he'd better have a respectable
family tree, going back at least five or six generations, if he wants to
impress this girl. As for her, well - a Capricorn woman doesn't really need a
family tree. You might say Capricorns are their own ancestors.
you know any typical Goats, it will begin to make perfect sense.
Frequently, a Capricorn girl will find herself involved in what can only be
called an "impossible" romantic situation. And there's a good reason. A woman
who secretly feels she's an impossible person will unconsciously seek out an impossible
love relationship to match her opinion of herself - and to punish herself.
Just what she deserves,
person.
herself to realize, and always far more physically appealing and attractive
than she believes. On top of that, her mind is stable (barring an afflicted Sun or
Mercury) and she's not flighty.
It's up to the Ram to convince her she's a very desirable female. With his
talent for enthusiastic appreciation and his tendency to place the woman he
loves on an ivory pedestal, he may manage to bring the shy or insecure Cappy
out of her shell rather neatly. Aries has a better chance than most other Sun
Signs to swing the Goat Girl from self-depreciation into a rightful pride in her
feminine sexuality. Still, even if he finally accomplishes this minor miracle, he
may not get to take her into his arms right away for keeps. There's her family.
Unless her parents outraged the Saturn sense of decency in some way, leaving
bitter scars, the average Capricorn is fanatically devoted to them. If her
family doesn't approve of the Ram, she may not either. If they
him they may be ill or in financial straits, and she feels it's her duty to remain
with them as long as she's needed, even if love itself must be sacrificed. I tell
you there's only one way out of that Capricorn family trip. Offer to let her bring
Mums and Pops along to share your married life - find a large house or apartment
with plenty of spare bedrooms - and make the best of it. Otherwise, if the
Ram talks her into deserting her relatives in their hour of need, or into leaving
them to cope with their own problems she'll become gloomy, blame herself and
feel constant guilty twinges. It's disconcerting to try to make love to a woman
who's continually having gloomy chills and guilty twinges. Especially for an
Aries male, who needs and demands, at all times, intense, concentrated attention
- directed toward himself.recognize it as only a mask, never guess the depth ofwant you to come closer, but I'm afraid it's only my stabilme - as a woman." Surely a Ram will
will
closely, he'll see that soft, secret little Capricorn smile of deep pleasure. If he
doesn't look fast, he'll miss it. All the same, it's there, reflected from the sunlight
within . . . of knowing she's loved.
He's really a very lucky Ram. As beautiful as she looks at this moment,
Saturn has promised to make her look lovelier every year that passes. He may
be a stern ruler of her emotions, but Saturn never breaks a promise. And neither
does she. At last, the Aries man has found a love he can trust, a love to
have and to hold. That's surely worth the challenge of fighting a few dragons of
selfishness - and rounding off their squared Suns into a circle of understanding.
move nearer, and maybe not murmur any romantic words, but if he watches

Their sex life can be greatly improved if the Ram studies the astrological
implications of the Saturnine emotional nature more closely. Sometimes when a
Capricorn girl wears a mask of casual indifference, it may be concealing the
most tormenting passions. If she represses physical expressions of affection, it's
only because Saturn keeps silently warning her: Watch out. Be careful. Don't be
fooled by your senses. They're unreliable, and they can trick you.
Listening to that inner voice, while burning with the desire to consummate
physically an emotional and mental attraction, can build up frustrations - and
frustrations can take many strange forms. With Capricorns, it can result in filling
up the inner emptiness with ambition for power, excessive financial security
- or even collections of antiques. Some of them become cranky and cross,
and a few accept their fate by pretending to believe that solitude is a sign of
spiritual attainment. The courageous Ram won't be afraid to rip off the Goat's
icy mask of indifference to expose her hidden passion. The trouble is that the insensitive
Ram may fail to
feeling behind it and give up before he's begun to fight.
It may also freeze the flames of passion between them if the female Goat
uses her self-chosen, protective cloak to shatter the confidence of the Aries man
in his ability as a lover. Once he feels his lovemaking is not arousing an equally
intense response in her, he'll suffer agonies of inferiority. It hardly matters if
his unhappiness is based on a fallacy, and she really longs to love him as fiercely
in return but can't trust her own emotions and feelings. He may not be perceptive
enough to grasp her secret desire to reciprocate his passion, and another
Aries-Capricorn relationship ends before it's had a chance to grow into the kind
of profound emotional experience it might have been.
The general rule between these Sun Signs should be to check each other's
Moon Signs. If the Sun and Moon in the respective charts are harmonious, the
Ram can magically transmute the cold, grey lead of Saturn into the sparkling
diamonds of Mars, through the pure alchemy of love. But if the Moon and Ascendent
of one or either was in negative aspect to the other's Sun Sign at birth,
and vice versa, these two may have to wait, and catch each other the next time
around, in a future incarnation, when some karmic patterns have worked themselves
out. However, such mutual natal afflictions are rare, and most Rams and
Goats can achieve harmony together eventually, if they try, however rocky the
path may be in the beginning. Mountain climbing is always harder when you
start; yet the closer you get to the top, the easier it is, the fresher the air, the
brighter the Sun . . . and the spirit leaps with joy at the nearness of the dream's
fulfillment.
The Capricorn train of thought is never permitted to run off the rails. Consequently,
the Goat Girl becomes upset when anything unexpected or unorthodox
threatens to disrupt the smooth status quo, and a Ram may unknowingly
supply such disruptions. When Cappy is upset, it can make an Aries man feel
more than a little tense. This female normally has nerves of steel, eyes like a
hawk, and the patience of Job himself. The impatient Ram may feel, somehow,
inferior to her self-control. He shouldn't. For her self-control is only the chain
she uses to bind her spirit from flying too far out, where there's no one to catch
her, if she should happen to fall. His arms are strong enough to catch her. And
he's persuasive enough, determined enough, to convince her of this - if he's patient.
This man follows the sunrise, and he's hurt when the Capricorn he loves
won't join him. She's gentle and warm, and makes his heart smile with her
jokes. Yet, there's something about her manner that says: "Don't come too
close."
Must astrology interpret this message for a bright Aries man? What she
really means is - "I
ity you want, that you don't really need
know how to answer such a silent plea in this girl's lonely, quiet eyes. Later, she
they're past thirty. (Make

7 comments:

  1. This sounds familiar. I wonder if my relationship with my Aries man and I would have been this "interesting" or "successful" if we lasted longer...guess I'll never know. Oh, hey, GREAT BLOG!!!!

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    1. Most women don’t know this... but even if a man is attracted to you or even says he loves you...

      ...chances are he still feels something is missing.

      Because there is a secret, emotional need hidden within his heart that he craves more than anything.

      And in most cases, is not being met.

      The problem is, if it’s not being met, his attention will inevitably wander until he finds a woman who can give it to him.

      Maybe one in a thousand women knows how to do this instinctively, and they usually rise to unbelievable levels of influence and fame.

      But most women, or men for that matter, don’t even know it exists.

      On the other hand, when you have this 1 simple secret...

      You won’t believe the shocking effect you have on the men in your life.

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      Ana

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  2. I am with an Aries man. He's the 3rd. My first was my first love at 16. The 2nd at 29 and we are still best friends. Now the 3rd. He is the love of my life and I believe part of a cosmic plan. We met during the Saturn /Mars conjunction in. July 2010. Has it been been transforming? Omg! If Saturn has to make me go through this at least I've had fun doing it. It's a bit like scaling a wall of shear ice for a Capricorn but I've just had to learn to close my eyes and let go.

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  3. This is plagiarism. This is clearly from Linda Goodman's book "Love Signs". Take this off or be sued for copyright.

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  4. Linda Goodman was amazing and yep.... this is all out of her book... give credit where credit is due...

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  5. This is definitely from Linda Goodman!

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  6. Definitely date an Aries man again, they make you feel so alive, so youthful and carefree and for a cappy that is what you want ... love this blog 💜

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