Friday, November 5, 2010

TAURUS WOMAN AND VIRGO MAN

It's almost impossible for a Taurus woman to seduce a Virgo man. But she
shouldn't allow herself to feel inferior over this. It's almost impossible for
any
woman to seduce a Virgo man. Remember that Narcissus is supposed to have
been a Virgo (though if he was, he had an Aries Ascendent and the Moon in
Leo). The reason astrological legend has labeled Narcissus as a Virgo is that
most Virgos are somewhat self-centered, not in the egotistical sense of Leo, or in
the spoiled sense of Aries, but in the symbolic sense that all technical, literal
Virgins (both male and female) are absorbed in themselves, because they're unaware
of what being totally awakened in all ways really means.
This man can't bear the thought of any sort of self-surrender. It implies a
lack of self-discipline. He's not terribly interested in conquest either. So it's
not surprising that he can't arouse much enthusiasm for Valentine's Day. However,
the Taurus girl is a few strides ahead of her astrological sisters, should she
decide to educate the Virgin in awareness of what makes the world spin for
those who enjoy the ride. He may not chase her down Lovers' Lane with bated
breath, but neither is he likely to run away from her. Since their natal Suns are
trine to each other, there's a lot going for the relationship from the start. Their
natures, goals and desires are similar. Influenced by a double Earth vibration,
TAURUS:
don't exist. Period.
If you have a healthy mind and body, and fulfilled emotions, nightmares
VIRGO:
everything around you is falling apart, the world is being run by raving
madmen, and your car has a broken transmission, you've lost your umbrella,
and missed your insurance payment, and your socks all have
holes in them, and
But how can you keep your mind, body and emotions healthy, when
TAURUS:
minds, bodies and emotions. A nice, warm bath and a cup of good,She's silentHe's silent because he can't think of many wild or spontaneous things toare mixed company
nourishing soup can solve any problem. Give me your socks. I'll darn
them.
She makes it sound so simple (and it is, really) that he'll stop worrying, because
obviously, he is properly loved by a woman who is both sensible and sensuous.
At least, he'll stop worrying temporarily, while he's chewing her crunchy
carob brownies, and nibbling her fragrant ear lobe. A Virgo man is repelled by
most artificial odors. He likes everything to be natural, as Mother Nature intended.
But he rather enjoys the fresh, feminine smell of scented soap, especially
on the ear of a sympathetic woman who listens calmly to his worries, without
becoming all flustered about them herself. She's an excellent listener, and he
can be a pretty fascinating talker. A Virgo man's conversation is usually highly
intelligent, clever, bright and interesting, even if it's not always terribly punchy.
Sexually, both of them fall under the category of the silent type.
because she prefers to partake in lovemaking undistracted by verbal romantic
coquetry, just drowning in the intimacies of union with the man she loves so
deeply.
say about sex anyway, and even if he could, he'd probably be too embarrassed to
say them in mixed company (the two of them alone together
- to Virgo). He's not frigid, and he has nothing against sex. In fact, a Virgo
male can create great beauty in the physical expression of love by blending
desire with emotional tenderness, stimulated by mental excitement. But he's
not moved to a single tremble or tremor by the kind of sex that lacks the qualifying
aspect of its higher purpose. She won't object to that attitude - no real
woman would. She'll probably believe she's lucky to share with him an experience
of such gentle affection and passion, and she's right. She is. Virgo love
burns with an intense white heat that fulfills with a more mystical depth than
the brief, red flame of more casual lovers.
Not that he doesn't know how to employ the light touch of romance, if and
when he chooses. This man isn't the kind to fall asleep in the middle of making
love, no matter what you've heard. (He's too wide awake from worrying about
whether or not his partner is pleased with his sexual behavior.) Some Virgo men
indulge in dozens of light-as-a-feather affairs, because they're experts in the art
of playing at love. And so an occasional Virgo male will attract promiscuous
women, with loose morals. They feel safe with him. Because he takes it all so
casually, they sense there won't be any unnecessary emotional scenes of jealousy.
Just good, clean Virgo fun. However, since this man never seeks a party girl
for a mate, he soon tires of the shallowness of the game, and then he's ready for
a permanent relationship. If he should happen to be strolling through a Taurus
girl's garden about that time, he'll be enormously susceptible to a serious romance,
followed by marriage. To state it plainly, he's a sitting duck.
She'll have to remember, however, that marriage is not a natural condition
for a Virgin, although if anyone can make matrimony seem to be more cozy than
confining, it's a Taurean female. As long as she doesn't make him feel possessed,
he'll be putty in her hands. She needn't worry about giving him too
much freedom. No matter how much rope she gives him, he'll probably only use
it to find his way home to her in the dark. He's rather a creature of habit, when
all's said and done. He's grown accustomed to her face, to her fragrant ear, his
own private shower, the fresh orange juice she squeezes for him every morning,
and his shirts all nicely stacked in the drawer, with no ring-around-the-collar.
So how is he going to be able to get used to hanging his socks on a strange towel
rack? Especially when the neatly darned toes and heels would be sure to remind
him of her, and cause him to have an attack of the guilties on the spot.
He may fail to see why she needs to surround herself with so many luxuries,
to be absolutely honest
as you've carefully taught me to be
you're still a little off center
investigating truth
without consequences
and doing your thing ...
playing with platitudes
reading books about Buddha
to learn how to die, before you've started to live
straining emotions through a sterile sieve
and scrubbing your squeaky-clean ivory tower
with Brillo pads
each morning
. . . but you're improving *

and she may complain that his ideas of personal comfort are somewhat Spartan,
but neither of them are inclined to throw away money with careless abandon -
so finances will seldom be a subject of contention. With or without a harmonious
Sun-Moon aspect between them, this man and woman can rely on the
smooth empathy of the 5-9 vibration to mist each misunderstanding with sympathy,
and soften each argument with forgiveness. It's not easy to please a Virgin,
but the Taurean woman can come mighty close to doing it, and she's capable
of touching her Virgo man's skeptical heart with her own special kind of
warm, unselfish devotion. If she sticks to it (and that's where much of her talent
lies - in sticking to things) she may, after a while, learn the knack of Virgo criticism
herself. Then she can send him a Valentine, in verse, that says (in
part)
(firmly) People who are properly loved have healthy, happy, fulfilled
the almost always harmonious 5-9 Sun Sign Pattern, they're both steady, sensible
types, who would rather be caught doing almost anything than messing
around with fantasy, flightiness or fickleness. She's soothing, and has a nice,
quiet voice. He's gentle and has clear enunciation. So, naturally, they don't
grate on each other's nerves.
If the Taurus girl plays her cards right (which is a somewhat inappropriate
metaphor, since few Earth Signs like to gamble) she can have him eating out of
her hand before he knows what hit him - and even coming back for a late-night
snack in her kitchen. What hit him will have been comfort. A female who
speaks and moves so sensuously and slowly seldom makes mistakes. Unless
you're a Virgo man yourself, you just can't imagine how comfortable it is to be
around someone who's not always making mistakes and goofs you feel compelled
to catch and correct. Didn't anyone ever tell you that compulsive criticizing
isn't much fun? It can be exhausting.
Neither of them becomes angry very often or very easily. They have fairly
tranquil, peaceful dispositions in common (though he may bite his nails and
blink his eyes a bit more than she does). Still, when the Bull does lose her temper,
it's quite a blast, never mind how rare, and it may leave deep scars. When
Virgo finally works himself up into a snit, it's usually a relatively shallow, surface
emotion, that doesn't last very long, and certainly doesn't drive itself deep
into his soul. Worry is something else again. A Virgo man's worries do drive
themselves deep inside of him, but not necessarily into his soul. They settle in
the general region of the stomach and the intestines, which is why he's always
poking about in her pantry when he stops for that late-night snack - to see if
she has any Pepto-Bismol or Turns handy. Now, if she had a quick temper like
other females, she might take offense at this apparent slur on her cooking. But
the typical Taurus girl will accept all the little idiosyncrasies of her Virgo lover
with equanimity, unless, of course, her Moon or Ascendent is in a more sensitive
sign.
Virgos don't itemize their apprehensions every few minutes. They don't
even holler about them every few hours. They can't see any point in airing them
as often as once a year, and some Virgos keep their trembles locked up inside for
decades. Do you have any idea what that can do to your digestive system, not to
mention your subconscious or psyche? It's also the major cause of arthritis and
rheumatism.
I've always felt that Hamlet may have had a Virgo Moon Sign, revealed
when he said, "I could be bounded in a nut shell, and count myself king of infinite
space, were it not that I have dreams." Virgos are normally quite satisfied
with small, nutshell-like spaces in which to stretch their egos and ambitions.
They're normally content to be hard working, polite and helpful - to spin their
own little cobwebs of hope, without tramping all over everyone else. It's those
darned dreams. Everyone knows (and certainly Virgo does) that bad dreams
and nightmares from suppressed emotions can cause anything from an attack of
gastritis and mild constipation to ulcers. That's where the Taurean woman
comes into the picture. Not to nurse him, but to soothe him, with her practical
philosophy about nightmares.

3 comments:

  1. Can you fix this? Not sure if it's me but everything is pulled apart and interupted and makes no sense in certain areas.

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